So many of you have wondered how my dad and brother are doing that I thought I would post a little blurb on the latest...
Yesterday Dec. 30 was the day of the surgery. It really happened this time!
It was a long day for everyone. My brother and my dad had to be at the hospital at 9:00 a.m. They took Matt back at 11:00 and got him started. Me, my sister Sonnet, and my brother Ryan headed over to the hospital around 11:30 and were able to see my dad right before they took him back. He really was in good spirits and didn't seem nervous at all! All he could talk about was how cute his doctor was! (That's just my dad!) So, we all spent the day in the waiting room with my mom and Matt's wife Angie. There were lots of laughs, and tears while we were waiting. I'm just glad we could be there with them to pass the time. My brother Rhett joined us later, and my brother Mike couldn't come until the next day because of work. The doctors were great about keeping us updated on their conditions. As soon as we heard that Matt's kidney was out and they were putting it in my dad... we were all just like "WOW this is really happening! The surgery for Matt took a little bit longer than expected. He had 2 arteries connected on each end of the kidney (most people only have 1) that made it harder to remove. We were all anxious during this time to hear how he was doing. Matt's doctor came out and told us he was done and was doing fine, and that he would be in the recovery room for a couple of hours before we could see him. By 5:30 my dad's doctor came out and said they were DONE and that my dad was doing great, and that we would be able to see him in about an hour. We decided to leave the hospital for a change of scenery and went to Mimi's Cafe for dinner. We went back to the hospital and were able to see Matt, but were still waiting on my dad. We went in his room and visited for a bit, but he was still really sleepy from the anesthesia. He was able to talk but couldn't keep his eyes open. It wasn't until this time that I realized what a sacrifice this was for my brother to give his kidney to my dad. I didn't realize how hard it was going to be on him. The recovery time for the donor is a lot longer than for the recipient. Once my brother decided to donate his kidney, he never looked back. Not even after all the tests they had to run on him to make sure he was a match. I respect him for this decision he made to help prolong my dads life.
My dad didn't get out of recovery until about 9:30. He was having a hard time breathing and his blood pressure and oxygen levels were low. They had to get him to where he was stable before they would let him come up to his room. The nurse had called and talked to my mom, so we were all anxiously waiting for him to arrive. They both just kept wanting ice chips, and you couldn't give them fast enough! We were relieved that they were both in their rooms and were through the initial part. We left the hospital about 11 and called it a night, hoping they could both get some rest!
What a miracle! They are both doing really well today. I just got back from the hospital tonight from seeing them and they are both up and WALKING already! The new kidney in my dad is working wonderful, it is just amazing! I don't have any pictures, because my brother requested that no pictures would be taken of him! Oh well, it is the memories that we will have to remember right!
This is truly a Christmas we will never forget! It has been so great having the family all together, and spending time together. That is what it is all about! We have truly seen the greatest "gift" ever!
Thank you for showing your concern, and pray for a quick recovery for both of them! :o)


